• Tue, Sep 6 2011

The 12 Ex-Girlfriends That Can Ruin Your Relationship

A good man is hard to find. A good man without a slew of troubling ex-girlfriends is downright impossible.

Whether she was the one who got away or the one who drove him to insanity, your boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend can still linger in his memories. Or, even worse, outside his apartment.

Some ex-girlfriends are harmless and some need restraining orders. Which of these ex’s are ready to wreak havoc on your relationship?

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  • Frances

    Or, for “Ugly ex-girlfriend”: Why did he date her? She must have been the kindest, funniest, most interesting person ever! Am I hot but boring?

    • Hanna

      She must do exciting and outlandish stuff in bed he still secretly fantasizes about!

    • LadyLuck

      Hey. I’m experiencing the same thing at the moment. I was head over heels for this guy then I saw a picture of him with his new gf that he meet online. I don’t want to sound mean but I needed to see another picture just to confirm that she does indeed look like that. I was shocked. When I asked him about her all he said about her was that she is a nice girl. I think you may have answered your own question. We never worked out because although I am cute I was extremely emotional and he hated anything to do with confrontation. He probably dated a lot of attractive women then got tired of the drama so downgraded to the not so attractive physically pile.

  • Donna

    ” their inseparable dynamic will bring out a paranoid and jealous side of you that you never knew existed.”
    this is me the -inth degree

  • Eve

    OK, I get that this is a joke, but it’s also a sentiment that’s been repeated ad nauseum. Let me say this: other women are not a threat to your relationship. Nobody can “steal” your man. If your boyfriend leaves you or cheats on you, that’s something HE did. No woman can force him to leave you for her.

    Also, the “psycho” thing rubs me the wrong way– if a woman has a legitimate mental illness, that’s one thing. If she’s just a nasty, destructive person, that’s another. The conflation of someone being horrible, violent and irresponsible with “craziness” is ableist.

    • Jasmine

      I completely agree! This slideshow works as humor, poking fun at the people we become in our relationships (behavior which looks trivial in hindsight) but only if you don’t take it seriously.

    • meteor_echo

      Well, having a mental illness doesn’t mean that you’re automatically a goody-two-shoes – I have several and I’m a clingy, insecure, terrible human being, I easily admit to that. Though, I agree with you on the first part of your comment.

  • CHRIS

    Am a guy and this is how we think , and we just wait , the threat level is so true , not going back to ugly , NEVER , she is so number 2 …

  • Antonio

    Its true, specially if it was your first girlfriend then the images and scenes get stuck and find room in your brain. but lemme tell you this, when a relationship is over there is no turning back, lemme repeat that again, when a relationship is over you dont turn back because whats past stays in past and if you ever try to convince yourself that shes worth to get back to then your just messing with yourself and dont take life serious. emotions are some stuff to what out for, dont let emotions suck your logic with in it, fight it and be strong. Keep Your Head Up!

  • Sandberg Noris

    For a very long time before i became aware of my wife infidelity, i was lost in our relationship.I always felt like there was something missing in our relationship.The love she felt for me was almost never here.We grown further apart from each other or rather she grown apart from me giving excuses with work and all other things but deep down i knew something was wrong only that i thought the problem was from my side. I thought that i was killing our marriage somehow but really i didn’t know what i did or ever did wrong to place our marriage on the edge of a knife.I remember suggesting we book yourself for marriage counselling.It was suppose to let us understand the reason why our marriage was failing and why her love was drowning.She was so good at lying that she made me feel like i wasn’t being a good husband.She made sure all the problem was going from my angle but really she was the cheating one among us.She was so good at covering her tracks that there was little or no room to make me think she was cheating on me.After three years of being a superhuman all her covers were blown an the entire thing was out or would say i was a fool for three years cos from the way it happened i feel she decided to let everything come out that she was cheating on me with an Italian painter .Cos even when i knew and was furious and asked for a divorces she didn’t even care all she said was i should speak to her lawyer about it and that was all i ever heard from and about her it was like she left the country with the guy i really didn’t know anything about this guy i only knew he was a painter that was all she disclosed i didn’t even get a name or any sort of information and when she left our house it was all i saw of her.Even when processing the divorce my heart and soul was craving for the wife i loved with all my heart.Tried all i could to make myself believe it was over on the grounds that she lied cheated and was not even sorry for anything but heaven knew that i wanted her back badly.I believe that was what made me even thing of searching on the internet on how to mend a broken marriage.I was so clear that i needed her back that my miserable life was so incomplete without her .I got lucky my search on the internet on how to mend a broken relationship which ended up helping me.I kinda was referred to a spell caster named MUTTON OSUN as they wrote his is quite good with this work using spell to get back exes and from my experience he is really good at it.Ok may some people may Thing i am just spamming but that is something i can never do cos it will be going against my morals as a human though there are a lot of lying spell caster but MUTTON OSUN isn’t one of them that i know cos he help me get my wife back he restored the love we shared together at the beginning of our marriage.Moreover article about him is all over the internet and they are all positive reviews.I only needed four items for the spell and all other little thing i had to do but trust me all he did worked all those little thing are just the finally process to make the spell effective.Every penny i spent on those item were worth it it was not a waste of cash cos he fufilled his promise to help get my wife back.If you may like to contact him for him use this email address: godsofosunx@rocketmail.com

  • Emma Russell

    I saw a testimony of Nadezhda Vyacheslav on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don’t know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen.I didn’t believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on.I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off.In my own case i didn’t ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back.This time i was at fault i messed up.Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her.I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn’t find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely.It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn’t catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had.It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry.That is why i wasn’t so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways.There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family.I literally lead four month of my life in misery.I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone.It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before.I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him.Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said “the spell does become effective at once that ” she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again.We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped.I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { godsofosunx@rocketmail.com }