You should only go to one fashion show. Just one. Save yourself for one.
Not because I was brainwashed by the speech about how you should save yourself for only oneÂ so it’s specialÂ that makes upÂ abstinence teaching in high school. I don’t believe sex is like a pizza slice and if you share it with a lot of people then you have . . . a really weird pizza party. A culinary adventure,Â that’s what I guess you have.
I do believe you should go to only one fashion show because attending fashion shows is awful.
You know how Hemingway said that whenever he imagined heaven he always saw the action taking place at the Paris Ritz?
Whenever I imagine hell, I imagine Fashion Week at Lincoln Center.
No matter how cool you feel going to the showÂ - and I looked tired, and I was also kind of sweaty because that morning I actually thought “fuck the man making me pay 30% more! I’m not even going to use deodorant!” – you will feel uncool as soon as you step through the doors. You will instantly see people who look much better than you. They will be skinnier and they will be taller and they will have all the physical traits you wished you had. They will also be better dressed. It is like suddenly being the uncool kid in the cafeteria again as soon as you enter, but this time everyone is trying to overcompensate by shouting about how important they are into their cell phones. So, you know, it’s much louder.
You know what made me really happy when I got there? Free Fiber One bars. They were the caramel chocolate pretzel 90 calorie kind. People say they’re not better for you than candy bars, but you know what? They are more delicious than candy bars.
I kept thinking about that publicist that said she’d been living on unseasoned chicken and steamed broccoli for months so she could be at Fashion Week. If you need a refresher she told CNN:Â
“You want to go to events wearing the designersâ€™ clothes, and you canâ€™t do that with a flabby belly . . . Every woman should get to experience it once, even if you donâ€™t go through what we have to go through.â€ť
And . . . oh, dear, no. Every woman should experience the Paris Ritz, and chocolate French Toast at Norma’s and hugs and good sex, and I think, depending on her tolerance for sand, a sunrise or sunset on a beach. I myself would, one day, like to see a bunch of baby turtles just hatching, and play elephant polo, and eat a $1,000 ice cream sundae, though not at once, or even on the same trip. All of these things seem desirable.
Every woman should not experience NYFW, because mentalities like that publicist’s make it terrible. They make it a scary, stressful experience designed to make you feel age twelve and uncool again. Also, I genuinely suspect that a lot of the women there are quite angry just because they have restricted themselvesÂ to 500 calories a day.
I hid and ate a Fiber One bar in the bathroom as soon as I got there. I wish I were joking.