• Fri, Nov 30 2012

Are You Short? Would You Ever Get Leg Lengthening Surgery?

I’m 5’7″, but growing up, my female friends were almost exclusively over 5’11″ so I just assumed I was on the shorter side of things until I got older and realized I’m a pretty average height, if not a bit above. Being half Peruvian, the majority of my paternal relatives are on the shorter side, so I had that reference; nevertheless, I wished to be taller. However, since this is purely a vanity dream, I cannot imagine going through leg lengthening surgery the way that Massachusetts woman Tiffanie DiDonato did–twice.

DiDonato, 32, has a form of dwarfism called diastrophic dysplasia which has led her to have a “typical size” torso and atypically short arms and legs; as a middle schooler, she was only 3’6″ tall. According to ABC News, she’d always dreamed of being tall enough to reach objects above her, cook and drive, but was never able to because of her height.

So, starting at 8-years-old, she underwent multiple leg lengthening procedures that led her to gain 14 inches of height, eventually bringing her to a height of 4’10″ (legally on the edge of Constitutional Short Stature). While it helped her gain even more inches than expected, it was an extremely painful process: the surgery involves breaking bones and forcing them to re-grow longer.

“When I woke up, when it hurt so much, you freeze it, almost like if you scream it is going to hurt worse,” she said. “All you can do is kind of let the tears fall and deal with it and suck it up and let it ride.”

Now, though, DiDonato is extremely pleased with her height now, and has a husband and baby. Though her father says he thinks she’s “lost a little mobility,” he also notes that her happiness is what matters.

To many people, “beauty is pain” is an everyday philosophy of life, whether it’s expressed via braces, hair removal, high heels, Botox or anything else that completely sucks but alters your appearance. But when does that cross a line into being dangerous? Is this no different than any other cosmetic surgery, or is it much closer to reconstructive surgery?

I’m a firm believer that you should have total control over what happens to your body, particularly when it comes to any form of surgery (sans life-threatening situations in which you cannot make the decision because you’re unconscious). Plus, DiDonato is able to live her life in a way she finds more efficient and fulfilling because of the leg lengthening procedure, so who’s to say she shouldn’t do what she wishes with her body?

As a matter of fact, quite a few people do not think it’s a good idea. Another person with dwarfism interviewed in ABC”s article, Reza Garanaki, said that he was pushed into the surgery by his father and was left with paralyzation. He stated he “would have rather been three feet tall than be a few inches tall with all the complications.” The advocacy group Little People of America is officially against it, and notifies potential patients that the procedure can cause permanent nerve and vascular damage. That said, all surgery comes with some form of risk; if you’re aware of this and willing to look beyond it, then that’s your decision. Personally, I would never  choose to have any surgery–I do not react well to anesthesia–but then, I don’t have any condition that impairs my daily life which would be solved by a procedure like this, so I have zero room to judge.

I think it’s commendable that DiDonato is sharing a story that may help others with similar conditions understand more about the surgery, post-effects, aftercare and more. She’s even had her journal turned into a memoir simply titled “Dwarf,” which reveals more about her own psychology while going through the experience.

Photo: ABC

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  • TGold

    I’m 4’11″ and I would get leg lengthening surgery in a heartbeat. It’s more for practical reasons than vanity- clothes would fit me better, I could actually use the top shelves in my kitchen cabinets, random people would no longer mistake me for a 14 year old, chairs would be more comfortable, driving would be easier, etc, etc. The price is the only thing holding me back. The best place for it is a facility in Germany, and the price is around $50,000.

    • Samantha_Escobar

      Oh my goodness. I figured it’d be expensive, but that is even more than I thought. Wow.

      And I definitely think that most people who would seriously consider the surgery would be doing it for practical/medical reasons. It makes a lot of sense for a lot of people, as unfortunately, a lot of the world is a built in a completely ableist way, which is ridiculous since something like 1/5 of Americans are affected by disabilities. I just meant I’d be doing it for vanity if I ever had a way to increase my height! :)

    • wannaremainsecret

      its more than 50 000 USD. That Germany doctor uses EURO as currency. He takes 48500 EUR for lengthening your thighbones + you have to pay the costs for living there 3 months while you are lengthening. If you sum all that you end up paying around 82 000 USD!

    • haily

      I have a different perspective than you because I am 5’6, but I think if you’re not a dwarf then it’s a case of “always-greener-on-the-other-side” syndrome. Just like many girls with straight hair want curlier hair and skinny girls wish they had more “womanly curves” and vice versa, it’s the same thing with height. I was always the tallest girl in my class and people assumed I was a total freak because they were all a foot shorter than me. Not to mention, I’m naturally flexible and I’ve always wanted to be a gymnast or figure skater – but my balance sucks because I’m considered tall compared to the average gymnast or skater. I also feel like I can’t wear high heels – even though I’m a medium height – because of this traumatizing time when someone told me I looked much bigger when i’m taller, and at the time I believed big was worse than fat. So my advice to you is to embrace your height, and save the money for a vacation and living room set!

  • Paul

    I’m a man and 5’6″ when wearing shoes. In addition to this my right leg is slightly shorter, most people don’t notice. There is no way I would get this surgery. Be happy with what God gave you. Don’t worry if you are shorter than those around you.
    On the flip side, my friend who is 6’4″ says that short people don’t realize how dirty the world really is. Most people don’t clean that tops of cabinets that he can see. Being short has it’s advantages.

  • meteor_echo

    I’m 5’5”, and, if this surgery didn’t involve breaking bones, I’d definitely go through it. I hate being below the attention line of people who are taller than me. It feels like I don’t exist.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=55805664 John Young

    It should be noted, all of “her” decision were made as a child. Her parents made the final choice not her. You made note of the other man in story who did not want the surgery, yet his parents (father) forced him to have it. I consider this child abuse. I am an LP, as are my wife and son and we would never consider the surgery for our child simply to gain some height. Yes, it would make one aspect of his life easier. But where do you stop?