• Mon, Jan 6 - 9:37 am ET

We Seriously Need To Change The Way We’re Talking About Ke$ha’s Eating Disorder

Kesha hosts a night at 1Oak in Las Vegas

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When Ke$ha announced this weekend that she was entering rehab for eating disorder treatment, we should have known that not everybody would handle the situation with grace and respect. Still, it’s incredibly disappointing to see major entertainment news sites responding the way they are.

I first found out that Ke$ha was suffering from ED from a since-edited article that juxtaposed its “omg so sad” message with paparazzi photos of the singer in a bikini, which they had the propriety to describe as “unflattering” and doing “nothing for her figure.” When I went looking for more information, I discovered that the always tactless TMZ had featured a side-by-side comparison of a makeupless Ke$ha in a bathing suit in 2011 and a glammed-up red carpet Ke$ha in 2013, apparently because it would be way too hard to report about a scary mental and physical health issue without including a blatant advertisement for anorexia. People at least had the decency to link to a hotline for the National Eating Disorders Association at the end of their article, but that barely makes up for its title: “Ke$ha: Signs That She Was Struggling Before Rehab.” Because we should totally be speculating over photos of her body and trying to determine when she started getting sick. That’s exactly what someone needs when they’re trying to recover from an illness. Especially when that illness was fanned by constant scrutiny from the media. Awesome.

We can’t keep this up anymore. We seriously, seriously need to overhaul the way we talk about eating disorders. We can’t continue to glamorize the effects of anorexia while pretending we’re against self-harm. We can’t continue to make individuals look weak for crossing the fine line between Health-Crazed and Out Of Control. It’s bullshit and it’s dangerous and it needs to stop now.

Luckily, even while dealing with her own personal battles, Ke$ha continues to be the same self-love role model she’s always been. She tells E! News,

I’m a crusader for being yourself and loving yourself but I’ve found it hard to practice. I’ll be unavailable for the next 30 days, seeking treatment for my eating disorder… to learn to love myself again. Exactly as I am.

We’re rooting for you, girl.

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  • http://ThePeppercat.com/ Candace

    Amen to this!

  • Kaitlin Reilly

    I’ve seen so many comments that basically say “Oh, she’s not that skinny, why is she going to rehab?”, which is such a dangerous notion that we have in our society — like, you can only seek help if you look completely skeletal. People don’t realize that so many symptoms of an eating disorder are “invisible” to the public. Kudos to Ke$ha for getting the help she feels she needs.

  • Lindsey Conklin

    I completely agree, so ridiculous and so sad that way media responds to Ke$ha’s heartbreaking confession. I do think though that it’s nice to see so many celebs recently admit to struggling with eating disorders because they are seeking help, acknowledging the ridiculous pressure and unrealistic expectations to stay thin. to all those who have recently, “we’re rooting for ya”

  • http://www.CurvyGirlInc.com/ Chrystal Bougon

    I feel for all women with eating disorders. I especially feel for young women in Hollywood or in the entertainment industry. I think she is so brave and I love her comment. I also try to be a crusader – but sometimes it’s harder then other times. Especially when someone like Ke$ha has TMZ and other media outlets gunning for her. I wish something could change in our media world. Eating disorders are not fun or funny. This woman needs our love and support.

  • bear48624862

    who gives a fuck?

  • haha

    THANK YOU