Frequent guest in your away messages circa 2005 and Bright Eyes lyricist Conor OberstÂ is suing the woman who accused him of rape for $1,000,000. The woman accused Oberst in the comments section on a since deleted XOJane post about sexual assault last December, and he’s come out swinging.
PerÂ The Daily Mail:
Conor Oberst filed the lawsuit yesterday claiming he was libelled by the woman, who he has identified as [NAME REDACTED], who claimed she was sexually assaulted by the singer-songwriter at a 2003 concert.
Here’s the thing: we don’t know what happened. There wasn’t an investigation after the alleged incident. It was in 2003 and you and I were both not present. And I live in the same world as youâ€“I know that sometimes celebrities get taken advantage of and people make false accusations. I also know that sometimes celebrities are violent rapists, and so far no details have come about the alleged victim seeking any type of financial compensation (the usual goal for false accusations).
In fact, it’s Oberst who wants money out of this whole thing, hence the lawsuit.
He has stongly [sic] denied [REDACTED]‘s allegations and is seeking monetary damages, attorney fees and other costs.
The 33-year-old musician says the media coverage that resulted from the three posts in the comments section of a blog has damaged his career, especially in New York where most of the major music publishing houses have their headquarters.
I understand that if Oberst truly feels that he’s been wrongly accused, he’d want to clear his name. But here’s the thing: he named her. As far as we know, this woman is a rape victim. I know that seems complicated given our presumption of innocence until proven guilty, but I think we have to reconcile that with affording this woman that same presumption. In that case, this woman is a rape victim and Oberst named her, publicly. That’s hard to stomach.
This is why women don’t come forward. If you come forward with an allegation of rape or assault, you get your name dragged through public forum after public forum, you face retaliation, and punishment. This is the insidious reality surround rape reportingâ€“we simply don’t take care of victims or give them the benefit of the doubt that we afford to the accused. We don’t know what happened. We just know the consequences of coming forward.
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