If anything positive has come out of the press blitz The Canyons is currently on, it’s the revelation that leading man James Deen is extremely nice, courteous, gentlemanly and professional, not just for a porn star, but for anyone. (Or rather, it’s a revelation for some; I have never doubted my internet boyfriend.) He continued to be all that in an interview The Daily Beast published yesterday, in which he turns down chance after chance to say mean things about his monstrous co-star Lindsay Lohan, instead striving to understand her behavior in as empathetic a way as possible, because he is the Ryan Gosling of porn. Here are the most diplomatic things he said, paired with some sexy promo shots from the film’s Facebook page.