Listen, before we delve into this, let me preface it by saying that this is a judgment-free zone. We’re not here to tell you that you’re uptight if you don’t go to strip clubs with your boyfriend, or that you’re selling yourself short if you do, or anything else that you ever might have heard on this topic to lead you to believe that there is one right answer and one wrong answer to the question posed in the headline.

All we’re here to do is ask. And explore (someone’s been going to therapy! It’s me).

So. The reason we find ourselves asking this question this morning is that Katy Perry and John Mayer, who are officially back together, were spotted at a strip club in Vegas over the weekend. That’s all. I can tell you that as for me, I’ve gone to strip clubs with boyfriends past because I love strip clubs. I think they’re fun. My only rule is that if we’re going to get lap dances, I pick the girl. That’s just the way I am, it’s how I feel comfortable.

I know other women who can’t imagine in a million years waltzing in to a place like that with their beloved, and still more who like to go as often as possible, dollar bills in hand, and then it’s everyone in the couple for themselves. So…What about you? Where do you stand?

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