Had I stopped with “How Will I Know?” I imagine most of us would have that Whitney Houston song stuck in our head for days, weeks, months… shit. I did it anyway, didn’t I? How many times did I dance around and sing that sound regarding my 2nd grade crush, Chris Landry… oh, too many! But back to sex and “Sexy Times.

This week Sara Hoots is tackling the big question of when you know you’re ready or not to get the sex on with your partner. Whether it’s your first time ever (as in V-card type status), or with someone you’ve recently started dating, it’s important to weigh the pros and cons of it all. In fact, our buddy Hoots even suggests making a check-off list so you can accurately decide if you’re ready to go all the way, put out, give up the goods, or however else you may want to phrase it.

It’s also important to know that everyone gets to that point on their own time; just because all your friends around you are dropping their pants to get it on, it doesn’t mean you have to do it, too. As they say: “If everyone is jumping off the Empire State Building, are you going to be next in line also?” Hell no! Can you imagine what that will do to your brain when you change your mind halfway down? Oh, wait… your brain won’t have time to compute that before you go splat. Oops!

If bloody messes don’t get you feeling randy, then you’re probably not as messed up as me. Thank god we have cheery Hoots to change the tone of all this for us.

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