Over at TheFrisky, a writer remarks: “I’ve dated a great many men in my relatively short life and I’m tired of getting half-naked under the covers with a guy only to find out he won’t spank me, restrain me, talk dirty to me, or any of a number of other things that blow my skirt up, so to speak.” There are probably lots of women trying to figure out how to politetly bring up their sexual preferences! How should one address this situation? I made a helpful chart! This! This is how.