In case you need a reminder, any dude who thinks he owns your vagina is not the dude for you. More
Yesterday was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day, but that doesn’t mean it’s a good idea to get all sorts of upset in public. There is a time and a place to cry, after all, but when you’re not in it, perhaps some of these things can assist you in stopping. More
Pauline Phillips, the woman behind the Dear Abby advice column, died today at the age of 94 after a long battle with Alzheimer’s. The column will continue, written by Pauline’s daughter, Jean. Pauline told TMZ:
“I have lost my mother, my mentor and my best friend.”
She adds, “My mother leaves very big high heels to fill with a legacy of compassion,commitment and positive social change. I will honor her memory every day by continuing this legacy.”
Someone recently asked me what, if anything, he could do to alert his friend to the fact that his girlfriend was, as they say, “ruining his life.” I think this is a valid topic of conversation, so I’m going to try to answer it in a more general way, as I think many people have been in this situation before. More
Sometimes one night of hot sweaty monkey sex can lead to love. Sometimes. More
Amy Poehler is at it again with her new episode of “Ask Amy.” It’s another tear-jerker. More
As we all know, the child of Will and Kate, a.k.a. the world’s almighty savior, is officially in utero. Flurries of media coverage have flooded the Internet, full of speculation, information and photos. And if there’s anything I’ve learned, it’s that plenty of celebrities will want in on the action, attempting to gain headlines and air time by discussing somebody else’s pregnancy. More
When people offer their guidance in a genuine manner, it can be one of the most valuable gifts you’ll ever receive. Therefore, we’re going to share the best advice we’ve ever received in the categories of “Career,” “Love” and “Self.” These may explain some of the methods to our individual madnesses, but mostly, we just hope one (or more!) of these tidbits helps you, too. More
So you’re ready to find a boyfriend by setting yourself on fire! Good for you. You may have questions, like “how do I know that he likes me for me, and not just because I’m on fire?” That is a … More
I love throwing parties. Ever since I moved into my first tiny apartment on 121st and Amsterdam, I’ve endeavored to bring people together and make them have as much fun as space and noise ordinances will allow. Since then, I’ve graduated to larger and more elaborate productions, from dance parties in my giant loft apartment I shared with five other people, to full-on dirty basement after hours decadence. I’m far from perfect at it, and I’ve made a ton of mistakes, but I like to think I’ve learned a thing or two since that first crowded party nine years ago during which my male friends decided to play “touch the pipe” with the exposed heating element in my kitchen. Hence, I give you: 14 road tested tips for throwing a party people will remember for the rest of their lives. More
Every day, The Daily Mail finds a new way to make me sad. They report:
A third [of women] view traditional radical feminism as ‘too aggressive’ towards men, while a quarter no longer view it as a positive label. One in five describe it as ‘old-fashioned’ and simply ‘not relevant’ to their generation.
Look. I am only going to say this one more time.
If you believe men and women deserve to be paid equally for equal work, you are a feminist. As a feminist, here are some things you can still do: More
Do you ever get a blow-out in the morning and then realize that you have to skip your work-out so as not to destroy it? Does it lead into a glorious spiral of skipping work-outs forever, and just lying on the couch eating thin-mint cookies like some sort of 19th century harem lady? That sounds fabulous. I admire that.
However, if you actually feel inconvenienced that you have to skip that work-out, well, I have solved that problem for you! Or rather Gregory Patterson, a stylist at Blow (a New York blow dry bar) has that problem solved. Here are his tips for keeping your blow-out intact: More
The other night, a friend of mine told me he’d met a girl he really, really, really likes. He doesn’t want to fuck it up, so he asked me for some advice. (I wouldn’t have tried to tell him what to do otherwise, honest.) One of the topics we covered was “when do I need to stop banging other women,” and the answer I gave him was surprisingly conservative, for me. More