Let me tell you a little story. Once upon a time, I was complaining to a friend of mine at work (my former work) about the size of my arms. They were too big, I whiningly opined. My friend assured me that my arms were not too big, that they were normal size, and that I didn’t look a little bit like a linebacker. I took her at her word.
Twenty minutes later, I walked into my (now former) boss’ office. Without skipping a beat, she looked up from her desk. More