I’m going to say something, and for some people, it might be hard to read. But here it goes: I use birth control because I want to have non-procreative sex.
I know. I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking that surely, I must have mis-typed. That I must want birth control not to control birth, but for my acne. Or for my ovarian cysts. Or for my menopause. Or for all of the other reasons that women have been forced to say they want birth control just to make it OK in the current, sex-negative climate. Because if you were to believe most of the rhetoric swirling around these days, you might start to think that preventing pregnancy is, in fact, a pleasant side-effect of hormonal IUDs, pills, patches, and rings. That the millions of women who use some form of hormonal contraceptive every day are doing it for some reason other than preventing pregnancy. More »