According to the Sarasota Dolphin Research Program, dolphins not only refer to each other by specific “abstract names,” but they also pattern their whistles after their friends, just like we do in college when we’re not sure what identity to have yet and the girl down the hall seems to have everything figured out so why not just do that. More
Topic: Communication
- 88 days ago by Samantha Escobar
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I have always been told that I talk a lot by every person in my dating history. Though I typically date outgoing people, I tend to be the one who has no qualms with speaking to strangers at bars, chatting on the phone for hours and being super friendly to literal cats on the street. My exes tend to make fun of me for this, saying that I talk too much, but I have always wondered how much of that is me, or whether women talk more than men on the whole. More
- 91 days ago by Amanda Chatel
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“But I thought you were my boyfriend! You ‘liked’ the last 21 of my self-taken photos on Facebook and retweet everything I put on Twitter — even the dumb stuff!” More
- 169 days ago by Amanda Chatel
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OMG. Spellcheck still doesn’t even recognize “texting” as a real word. More
- 281 days ago by Amanda Chatel
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August just might be your lucky month! More
- 326 days ago by Amanda Chatel
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“I don’t want to know your password. That just leads to trouble, and I don’t want that.” More
Thomas was a writer who was working on his second book and was an adjunct professor at Columbia. I think it was mostly the professor part I liked. He wasn’t my “type,” at all. I didn’t find him exceptionally attractive or witty, but he was so damn smart I just couldn’t get enough of him. Sometimes when we were fooling around he’d recite his doctoral thesis, and honestly, it was pretty hot; even if the premise of his thesis still remains a mystery to me to this day.
Having a few years on me, and several more sexual experiences than I under his belt, he was really adventurous in bed and always looking to push the limits. It seemed harmless at first: adding some toys into the mix, taking turns with tying each other up… basic stuff that we all try out at some point or another. One day he asked me what my “safe” word was. Having never needed a safe word in my life, but being slightly versed in the world of BDSM, I knew what he meant and laughingly said: “apple.” I was eating an apple when he asked me the question. More
- 965 days ago by Lilit Marcus
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Yesterday, TresSugar posted an article about how to stay friends with your high school friends once you’re in college. But for those of us who are well past our college years, staying friends with someone often means navigating marriage, kids, faraway moves, and demanding jobs. So how can you stay friends with someone you’ve known for years even when you’re all grown up and living on opposite sides of the world? Here are a couple of things to keep in mind: More
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- 992 days ago by Lilit Marcus
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Recently, Lemondrop wrote a post about whether you should tell your partner how many people you’ve had sex with. Not only is the answer to that question “No,” there are many other things that you should tell your partner instead.
•Whether you’ve have or had any STDs. This one should go without saying.
•What kind of contraception you’re using or would prefer to use. I use the NuvaRing, so I often have to explain to guys what it is. Since they can feel and notice it during sex, a little context goes a long way. Also, if he is about to pull out a condom, this is a good time to mention your latex allergy. More
- 1029 days ago by Jessica P. Ogilvie
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A lot of people — myself included — have agonized over whether or not to move in with a partner. There are even some compelling scientific studies about how it might affect your likelihood of getting and staying married. But … More
- 1111 days ago by Jessica P. Ogilvie
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I don’t know if you guys know this, but Cosmo is pretty much only about sex at this point. Sure, it’s got some pretty new dresses in there — mostly half off a woman’s body as a man strokes her … More



