Topic: etiquette

Bullish: Boost Your Career by Never Being Late Again (It’s Not Actually Cute)

Bullish: Boost Your Career by Never Being Late Again (It's Not Actually Cute)

There are lots of things — such as having your phone turned off for not paying the bill and deciding not to shave your pits because you love nature — that are sort of cute when you’re young and adorable and become increasingly grotesque as you age. There’s a life cycle on hapless damsel-in-distress behavior — even Sandra Bullock has outlived her ability to play a winsome, helpless idiot in our nation’s romantic comedy industry. More »

Poll: How Much Do You Care About Cleanliness?

Poll: How Much Do You Care About Cleanliness?

Sometimes, in relationships, we find that our partner is less of a neat freak than we are. And by less of a neat freak, I mean, doesn’t notice dust bunnies until they are usurping his or her place on the couch.

Once we’re in established relationships or marriages, these kinds of disagreements are kind of already what we signed up for. But when you’re just getting to know someone, would you end things if you found out that they lived in a perpetual Pigpen-like state? More »

Modern Etiquette: Does Being Polite Make You a Pushover?

Modern Etiquette: Does Being Polite Make You a Pushover?

When I was taking cotillion classes as a kid, our teachers would reiterate that the point of etiquette was to be an equalizer. In other words, since we all knew what politenesses were expected of us in social situations, everyone would feel comfortable. However, that’s not the case. Different cultures have different standards of etiquette, and etiquette often becomes a way to quickly indicate who came from the ‘right’ background and who didn’t. While common etiquette united the kids in my social circle, anyone from a different background would have immediately given themselves away as an outsider when they didn’t grab the right fork or know the proper pleasantry to use. More »

Modern Etiquette: How to Tell Your Friend You Don’t Want to Be Her Bridesmaid

Modern Etiquette: How to Tell Your Friend You Don't Want to Be Her Bridesmaid

Recently, my friend “Bonnie” and I were having a conversation about a mutual friend who is getting married. The friend asked Bonnie to be in her bridal party, and Bonnie – who hates our friend’s fiance and doesn’t approve of them getting married – struggled for a way to turn down the invite without looking like a jerk. Here are some ways to navigate a similar social situation: More »

Party Favors: Your Condoms Could Be Coated In Vegetable Oil & Other Sex Risks To Freak You Out

Party Favors: Your Condoms Could Be Coated In Vegetable Oil & Other Sex Risks To Freak You Out

Your sex toy could lead to birth defects. – AOL Health

Here’s some etiquette rules to breaking off your engagement. – YourTango

And you thought the height difference between you and your boyfriend was a big deal. – The Frisky

Don’t worry, girls: he doesn’t listen to what his friends say, either. – College Candy

Now your Jewish mother can use technology to pick your boyfriend. – PR Newswire

Attractive people apparently have more daughters. Sorry, moms with boys… – Allure’s Daily Beauty Reporter More »

The Unbearable Lightness of Choosing a Baby Name

The Unbearable Lightness of Choosing a Baby Name

Whether we’re pregnant, trying to get pregnant or simply have a lot of extra time on the internet, plenty of women can spend hours searching for the right baby name. We read lists of the most popular, favorite up-and-coming, celebrity-inspired and literary-inspired (by which I’m always disappointed). From there, we move to the more obscure collections – soap opera names, names from musicals or Gilligan’s Island. We search the names of every ethnicity we might possibly have a connection to. My cousin’s husband is from Moscow, so a Russian name might work. A hundred years ago, someone in my family came over from Croatia, maybe I should look at Slavic names? No, I don’t know how to pronounce them, because I’ve never even heard the language spoken, but there’s history there.

If you’re actually pregnant, this process is extremely stressful. Finding the right baby name is difficult. Getting the father of your child to agree with you is even harder. Thinking of all the possible nicknames your child can get and reconciling with them is the hardest of all. More »

Modern Etiquette: What to Do When You’re a Thanksgiving Orphan

Modern Etiquette: What to Do When You're a Thanksgiving Orphan

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays – there’s a major emphasis on food and minimal emphasis on any kind of religion. However, Thanksgiving is supposed to be about family, so what happens when you don’t get to spend the day with your own family? I’m planning a trip to visit my parents at the end of December, so I don’t want to pony up cash to go twice in two months. There are a lot of people who are ‘Thanksgiving orphans’ – people whose families live far away, who have to work on the holiday weekend, who can’t afford plane fare, etc. So what’s an orphan to do? More »

Modern Etiquette: How to Apologize to a Friend You Hurt

Modern Etiquette: How to Apologize to a Friend You Hurt

Recently, two of my friends – we’ll call them Christina and Denise – had a falling-out. It sucks for me because I’m friends with both of them and don’t want to have to choose between them, but it also reminded me how hard it can be when you realize you’re in the wrong and need to apologize to one of your nearest and dearest. Here are a couple of things to keep in mind: More »