While I love doing sex work, it hasn’t been entirely without physical consequences. I now respond differently, even rather negatively, to certain physical stimuli. More
I know I’m in the minority with my views on infidelity, and that’s what makes things with my current partner so complex. More
There are a lot of weird things about sex work that you don’t really notice once you’ve been doing it for a while–or ever, if you started early enough. One of those things is the fact that many areas of the sex industry involve basically being a professional “other woman.” More
About a month ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. More
There’s been a big push in recent years to make sex work “empowering.” Renting access, however limited, to your body is now almost some kind of feminist right of passage for mostly middle-class young women. I tell people I’m a sex worker, and one of the most common positive reactions is, “That must be so empowering for you!” More
It isn’t that I fundamentally disagree with most of the basic principles of feminism. I don’t! But I cannot in good conscience call myself a feminist. More
Like any subculture, the subculture of sex workers has its trends. More
For standard full service escorting, a natural look is usually your best bet. The problem: you can’t get too natural with it. Part of our jobs as sex workers is to fulfill fantasies, and it’s rare to encounter a woman who is as radiantly beautiful without makeup as she is with makeup. I doubt most clients would be too psyched if I walked into appointments sans makeup. More
The sad truth is that there are a lot of aspects of my work that are dishonest. I dishonestly use a false name, I dishonestly pretend to be turned on by clients or activities that hold little appeal for me, I dishonestly portray myself as ecstatically happy even when I’m in the throes of severe depressive episodes. More
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Last week, I showed you all how to do the hairstyle I most often used for my high rate, low volume independent escorting work. This week you get to see the hairstyle I used for low rate, high volume work. THIS is a hairstyle that can get mashed into a pillow over and over again with very few repercussions. More
The perils of sex hair are real. Fortunately, being an ingenious young lady, I’ve come up with two hairstyles that lend themselves very well to my work, and I’m going to share them with you guys. You also get to see my real face, which is a bonus for those of you who have been wondering what I look like. More
I understand why Daniel is uncomfortable with my work–it is a tragic failing of most men that they want to own the women they love–but that doesn’t make it any easier.
PLUS: How readers can see me speaking live about sex work. More
I know other women have found partners who accept and even encourage their participation in all aspects of the sex industry, but for better or worse, the man I have chosen either can’t or doesn’t want to accept anything but the bare minimum of physical contact with my clients. More
Sex work can be an incredibly isolating profession. In a world where our work is at the very least frowned upon, if not directly criminalized, it’s extremely difficult to find support. Even relatively understanding civilian friends tend to be unable to truly relate to the difficulties of life as a sex worker. Too often, the solution to a complaint about work is, “Well, if you hate it so much, why don’t you quit?” More