Topic: Oral sex

Real Talk: Things We Thought Men Liked In Bed (And Were Wrong About)

Real Talk: Things We Thought Men Liked In Bed (And Were Wrong About)

Before one becomes sexually active, one has a couple years fraught by hyper awareness of sex and a preoccupation with being attractive. In this time, one develops a lot of ideas about what sex will be like. Most of them turn out to be absurd. A large portion of our ignorance can be attributed to 1) terrible sex advice from magazines and 2) the professed knowledge of our equally clueless friends. This kind of thing leads to the (still widely propagated) myth that, while performing oral sex on a man, one should hum “The Star Spangled Banner” for that… little… something… extra. This exact piece of horrible advice and much more ahead… More »

Real Talk: Do Women Expect Men To Go Down On Them?

Real Talk: Do Women Expect Men To Go Down On Them?

Earlier this week, spurred on by Jay McInerney’s wild youth which seemingly involved very few blowjobs, we asked men if they expect women to go down on them. Today, we asked women if they expected men to go down on them. As you read the following answers, I’d like you to keep in mind that almost every man expects women to go down on him.

I’m going to say that again: nearly every man of our generation that we polled expects a woman he is dating to go down on him.
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