Topic: single

I’m 23, And I’ve Never Been In A Real Relationship… And I’m Fine

Iâm 23, And Iâve Never Been In A Real Relationship⦠And Iâm Fine

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Yep, you read the title right. I am a 23- year-old woman who has never been in a real relationship. I’m Candice, “the friend,” “the cool girl who guys can watch sports with” but girlfriend? Nope, not a box I’ve checked. Now, before you think “Poor girl” or “Wow, she must have some serious issues,” I want to state that I’ve been single my entire adult life by CHOICE. More »

When Things Don’t Work Out And You Are Afraid Of Being Alone Forever

When Things Don't Work Out And You Are Afraid Of Being Alone Forever

If you are alone, I can’t give you much advice on how to change that; I can only say that you’re not really alone, because we’re all somewhat alone, but that doesn’t mean very much anyway. But if you’re afraid of being alone, I can tell you that I know it’s terrifying.

People who spend most of their lives alone aren’t necessarily “good” at it, but they’re better-adjusted. People who spend most of their lives alone will tell you how much better it is, and how much easier it is, and how you should really stop being sad about it because they aren’t sad about it and that makes them stronger. And if you are like me, you’ll nod and say, “Yes, you are so strong, that must have been so hard, thank you for the advice.” More »