Topic: spanking

How To Tell Someone You Like To Be Spanked

How To Tell Someone You Like To Be Spanked

Over at TheFrisky, a writer remarks: “I’ve dated a great many men in my relatively short life and I’m tired of getting half-naked under the covers with a guy only to find out he won’t spank me, restrain me, talk dirty to me, or any of a number of other things that blow my skirt up, so to speak.” There are probably lots of women trying to figure out how to politetly bring up their sexual preferences! How should one address this situation? I made a helpful chart! This! This is how. More »

Your Sexual Kinks Don’t Make You A Bad Feminist. Right?

Your Sexual Kinks Don't Make You A Bad Feminist. Right?

Umm, basically I always thought I was a feminist because I believe women should have equal opportunities in the workplace, and be paid the same amount as men if they’re doing that same job. And, yeah, that’s about it. Pass me one of those “this is what a feminist looks like,” t-shirts, I’ll wear it! I didn’t know that I was signing up for an Orwellian Big-Sister group that had any say over what I liked to do in bed. More »