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I think it’s great that you’re trying to be single and on your own for a little bit. Going from relationship to relationship without leaving time for just you isn’t very healthy. I always encourage everyone I know to be totally for at least a few months of their lives. It’s such an important way to get to know yourself, and to really be ready for a good relationship. After my first breakup, I was single for over three years, and I learned so much about myself during that time. More
The proverbial white flag is waving, albeit limply. More
Cheating on someone almost feels as bad as being cheated on. Almost. More
No one likes to feel like the fat kid at the table while their partner skips dinner. More
There are a lot of weird things about sex work that you don’t really notice once you’ve been doing it for a while–or ever, if you started early enough. One of those things is the fact that many areas of the sex industry involve basically being a professional “other woman.” More
Dita would not be proud of my last breakup. More
There comes a time in every single girl’s life when she needs a professional to tend to her needs. More
Since her death, few people close to designer L’Wren Scott have been spoken about more by the media than her life partner, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger. More
Enter: the long-distance sex toy. More
When I moved to New York City and didn’t accomplish what I had expected, I blamed the person I had come here for. But was it really his fault? More
It’s an easy place to fall in love with, or romanticize and is laced in juxtapositions and secrets. More
If you actually like Valentine’s Day, you’re basically going to be a puddle by the end of this. More
I am an equal opportunity enjoyer of all made up holidays, but Valentine’s Day can be a real bitch for babes that aren’t locked down. More
I understand why Daniel is uncomfortable with my work–it is a tragic failing of most men that they want to own the women they love–but that doesn’t make it any easier.
PLUS: How readers can see me speaking live about sex work. More