No one likes to feel like the fat kid at the table while their partner skips dinner. More
There are a lot of weird things about sex work that you don’t really notice once you’ve been doing it for a while–or ever, if you started early enough. One of those things is the fact that many areas of the sex industry involve basically being a professional “other woman.” More
Dita would not be proud of my last breakup. More
There comes a time in every single girl’s life when she needs a professional to tend to her needs. More
Since her death, few people close to designer L’Wren Scott have been spoken about more by the media than her life partner, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger. More
Enter: the long-distance sex toy. More
When I moved to New York City and didn’t accomplish what I had expected, I blamed the person I had come here for. But was it really his fault? More
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I am an equal opportunity enjoyer of all made up holidays, but Valentine’s Day can be a real bitch for babes that aren’t locked down. More
I understand why Daniel is uncomfortable with my work–it is a tragic failing of most men that they want to own the women they love–but that doesn’t make it any easier.
PLUS: How readers can see me speaking live about sex work. More
I know other women have found partners who accept and even encourage their participation in all aspects of the sex industry, but for better or worse, the man I have chosen either can’t or doesn’t want to accept anything but the bare minimum of physical contact with my clients. More
We’re at a huge party at a hotel, the kind with ice luges and free food and multiple bands and tons of middle-class white people in sparkly dresses. More
It’s a pretty well-established truth of life that breakups are the WORST. And what do you know? The holidays have officially been declared break-up season. Unlike a summertime breakup where you can be all “whatevs I’m going to the beach,” with a holiday breakup, you’re faced with the prospect of going to holiday parties stag, the pressure of New Year’s Eve, and a long, bleak post-holiday winter. More